Building Yourself

Putting Your Success Together One Piece at a Time

These pages contain the complete revised text of Building Yourself, public speaking trainer Elliot Essman's guide to living the successful life. The published volume is also available on Amazon.com.

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Building Yourself is an unusual and effective guide to getting the most out of a successful life. A truly fresh approach to success, careers, and leadership.

  1. SAVVY

    1.00 Think for Yourself - 1.01 Autonomy - 1.02 Critical Thinking - 1.03 Recognize Major Obstacles - 1.04 Question Authority - 1.05 Vector to Opportunity - 1.06 Accept and Manage Luck - 1.07 Deal with the Real World - 1.08 Come to Terms with Risk - 1.09 Develop Stature - 1.10 Find the Proper Self

  2. SWEAT

    2.00 Achievement Never Comes Easy - 2.01 One Step at a Time - 2.02 Let the Market Decide - 2.03 Do it Yourself - 2.04 The Magic Word—“Ask” - 2.05 Use Time to Your Advantage - 2.06 It's Not Just a Good Idea - 2.07 The Critical Importance of Selling - 2.08 Perspective vs. Perfection - 2.09 Entrepreneuring - 2.10 Ten Percent Innovation

  3. SKILLS

    3.00 Ammunition for a Powerful Life - 3.01 Educate Yourself - 3.02 Language Skills - 3.03 Numbers - 3.04 Computer Literacy - 3.05 Public Speaking - 3.06 The Written Word - 3.07 Listening Skills - 3.08 Negotiation - 3.09 Information Gathering - 3.10 Leadership

  4. SOURCES

    4.00 Cash Is King - 4.01 Simple Arithmetic - 4.02 Ask for What You're Worth - 4.03 Expect the Unexpected - 4.04 Create Flexibility - 4.05 Do Your Homework - 4.06 Set Priorities - 4.07 Diversify Your Income - 4.08 Respect Money - 4.09 You Can Never Be Too... Rich or Thin - 4.10 Divorce Your Parents

  5. SAVE

    5.00 Cash Is Still King - 5.01 Life Is a Business - 5.02 Who Would You Rather Have Dinner With? - 5.03 Compound Your Income - 5.04 Credit Is Power - 5.05 Opportunity Cost - 5.06 Take Risks...but Don't Gamble - 5.07 Take Full Responsibility - 5.08 Keep Informed - 5.09 Shoot for Steady Growth - 5.10 Always Take Your Profits Too Soon

  6. SPOUSE

    6.00 Read this Chapter Twice - 6.01 The High Cost of Experience - 6.02 There Are No Rules - 6.03 What Being Careful Means - 6.04 Team with Someone Who Contributes - 6.05 Don't Rush Into It - 6.06 There's a Place for Children - 6.07 People Change - 6.08 The Joy of Knowing Nothing - 6.09 A Note on Romance - 6.10 Aren't Weddings Nice?

  7. SOCIETY

    7.00 Questions to Resolve Early - 7.01 Society Is an Abstraction - 7.02 You Make Society - 7.03 Society Looks to the Average - 7.04 Society Conditions Thought - 7.05 Diplomacy - 7.06 Personal Morality - 7.07 Bureaucrats and Clerks - 7.08 Morality Manipulators - 7.09 Proving Your Point - 7.10 Dealing with Crooks

  8. STRANGE

    8.00 Strange Is Perspective - 8.01 Value Personal Differences - 8.02 Turn the Camera - 8.03 Hear Both Sides - 8.04 Admit the Possibility of Error - 8.05 Welcome Change - 8.06 Think International - 8.07 Be Eclectic - 8.08 Be Prepared to Shift Gears - 8.09 The Outsider - 8.10 Accepting an Imperfect World

  9. STRENGTH

    9.00 Successful Body/Successful Mind - 9.01 The Problem of Youth - 9.02 Threats to Physical Health - 9.03 Wellness Orientation - 9.04 Empty Addictives - 9.05 Holistic Approach to Health - 9.06 The Challenge of Stress - 9.07 Emotional Traps - 9.08 Physical and Emotional Releases - 9.09 Pleasure - 9.10 Reaching the Higher Self

  10. SELECT

    10.00 It's Who You Know - 10.01 Gravitate Toward People with Integrity - 10.02 A Friend in Need - 10.03 People Who Aren't All There - 10.04 The Mentor Relationship - 10.05 Manipulation - 10.06 Beware the Helpless - 10.07 Competition - 10.08 Envy - 10.09 Long Term Alliances - 10.10 Leaders and Followers

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